Shari you are brillant. Thanks for the suggestion of the notebook. I put together one right after reading your reply.

Inky and SPG: A Thank You letter is the perfect oppurtunity for me to get back on friendly terms. My dh is getting fustrated and wants something done yesterday. It is quite possible, I am reading things into emails and discussions with the teacher because of it. Add that to my prior ambivalence to a grade skip and it is quite feasable I am the one being too sensitive. I volunteer in her classroon so I am hoping we can get back on the same page and find the best solution. She did send some differentiated homework home for ds this week so we are going in the right direction.

I really don't know what I would do without your support and this forum. I really appreciate it.