Wow, you gals have a lot going on!
Mamma22, I was pretty close to your spot about a year ago. Stick around and you'll pick up the lingo pretty fast!
Tall boys, when it rains it pours. The stress from the kids' issues can be incredible, but with economic instability added to the mix.......jeesh...it probably feels like crushing pressure.
Hopefully one day at a time will bring your family to a better place. My DH was recently laid off and was SO fortunate to find something relatively quickly. It's so stressful.
