I just wanted to add that while we have all said that some of the social skills problems that you see in aspergers can be seen in lesser degrees in some gifted children and be completely "normal", if there is such a thing, I would also like to stress the following- Just because a child doesn't have aspergers doesn't mean that they may not benefit from social skills teaching. I don't want to forget that. Someone told me that it doesn't matter as much the diagnoses as long as the childs needs are met.
