The bomb HAS gone off for my sister. Sadly, I am not even talking to her at this point. She is so frustrating b/c she is the ultimate passive aggressive person. When I finally have enough and confront her with why she is upset and what can we do to improve the situation I get the childish act of her hanging up the phone and refusing to talk to me all together, but when she is ready to let it go it is never to be discussed but let's pretend everything is alright and have some fake relationship. It really is frustrating and sad.