Welcome lilac wine! I also have an HG+ 4yo (mine's a boy) who will be going to kindy next fall. I love the little scientists.
You are very lucky to have so many school choices for your DD! We have our little public school or even smaller religious schools to choose from here. If you narrow down your school choices, others here have recommended visiting the school on a regular day (not just an open house).
Do you have info about the Davidson Young Scholar's program? Your DD can apply when she is 5. You will also need achievement testing I believe, and I think there may be some benefit to taking that before your DD is actually enrolled in a school if you plan to apply to DYS.
I hope you get loads of useful information in your follow-up meeting too. Glad you have found this site - it has helped me tremendously to know there are other parents going through the same stuff.
