I think oipen houses give you what they want you to see. What happens if you show up unexpectedly? Are they able to receive you? If not, what are the reasons? Do the reasons make sense or make you take pause?

Ask questions!!! Talk to parents! Get perspective!! We learned the hard way that you should never judge a book by it's cover.

Private does not = excelent
Public does not = poor
and vice versa... use your parental radar!