I just have to say ... what a relief to find like minded individuals that are dealing with the same things that I am. As for my friend ... it is hard for me to step away because we were close friends before we got pregnant. We meet in school while we were both working on our masters and have had so much in common. We can have some amazing conversations when it does not evolve around the kiddos and I know it would be hard to give up on the friendship, but I am realistic and know from reading up on G+ kiddos that my main focus has got to be my DD and the up hill battle I am sure we will have in front of us. So this is why I questioned the tests, because opinions I have read online is that if you plan to send your child to public school which we do, than you will need to have your child classified before they get into school so you are not relying on the teachers and the school district. I do think that as some suggest it is too early for us to test and we should probably wait until she is 3 or 4. But I want to research all of it before stepping into that arena, so please keep the advice coming and the links to websites and articles. I do appreciate it!