Nope. I think you accomodate both of them, naturally. grin

I just think that a child who acts out is SCREAMING that something is wrong. A child who is not acting out may be in just as much trouble, and I think you worry about that one, too. But my big worry in this particular thread is the child who is *even* acting out and is *still* pooh-poohed. frown


Kriston