I think DD is happy where she is, socially. Academically, she is not as driven as DS and she is happy to do lots of reading at home.

DS does not seem to be clicking with any of the kids at his school. He just doesn't fit. He has never known anything different, though, and seems to accept the situation for now.

Neither of the kids knows about me shopping around. DS would probably be excited about trying this new school. DD would not. I don't know how I would manage having them in two different schools...

I might be able to talk the GT school into an arrangement where I could teach math there in exchange for part of our tuition. But then I think that if I were going to do the teaching, I could just homeschool my own kids and they would get even more benefit than they would with a student:teacher ratio of 12:1 without all the driving around. So I don't know. I'll have to think about it. My first impression is that I didn't fall in love with the place enough to make a heroic effort.