I love Heroes! My kids have always been obsessed with superpowers ("Mom, if you could have one superpower, what would it be?"--One teacher answered, "The power to eat as much as I want and never gain weight"...I thought that was funny. I personally like emotional healing power--to help myself and others).
Anyway! Giving space has been difficult. At least mine still are dependent on me for rides everywhere. I put news or announcement clippings on my oldest's desk, notes, all kinds of stuff. He knows I think about him and give him choices. Then I have a great excuse to periodically say we need to get together to make some decisions or discuss.
