Sadly, not all educators would agree with this statement. You can wind up in real values clash if you assume you all agree about this and it's not so.
That is certainly true and I don't suggest that you get into a clash with administration. However, in my experience, too few parents speak up (or know they can speak up) when it comes to expressing concerns for their children because they think they will not get an open ear. Almost every set of national teaching standards that is out there has a statement about addressing the diverse needs of learners (usually regarding learning styles and/or ability). Reputable teacher education programs and administrator prep programs now include differentiated instruction as a significant part of curriculum. So opinion aside, I think it is safe to say responsible admistrators will be aware that the expectation is there that the school will at least attempt to meet needs of all kids. Will they agree? That is not a guarantee, but parents are certainly not out on a limb to ask for a plan to address special needs.
Bottom line...go to the principal. Be prepared. Have suggestions ready and be willing to keep an open mind to alternatives. If you get a "no" you are not any further away from a solution than you are now.
