I guess I could ask how many of us often find people they have that "connection" with, IRL. It seems like everyone here connects very well on some level. I have tons of friends IRL(no, really, I do!). There are only a few people I can have that awesome conversation with though. The kind when you talk really fast and flit from subject to seemingly unrelated subject, almost maniacally!
I cherish those friendships, however, I feel connected to a very large and diverse group of people. I have different kinds and levels of conversations with all of them.........
If we take a look at that bell chart, I gotta tell you, the end of it there where those 99.9ers sit......it looks a little sparse.
Perhaps instead of approaching from a perspective of feeling alienated, we could make it a goal to teach them how to have different levels of relationships.
Not to say I have always done this successfully....

I just think it might be something good to shoot for.