How would you have reacted if one of your kids decided to become the 'wild, rebellious, youngest' child? I'm glad your youngest has been treated well on campus - not everyone has that and unfortunately some lower tier universities do not treat them well. Some may get disciplined for matters that are trivial.

That seems like a nice watching and yet giving plenty of freedom. Also... how would you react if one suddenly decided they enjoyed smoking/vaping? Force them to quit? But yes, it's a reminder of what I could have been.