How old is the youngest's BF and eldest BF? Does she drink elsewhere other than the bars to avoid being caught and to respect the University?
It's nice that he made the place more inclusive, whether in socializing or in hobbies. What about limits in other areas, such as curfews or smoking/vaping? I knew some who allowed their young sons/daughters to vape in places where there was no purchase age for free samples. Did they have bad habits or minor flaws that were otherwise fine?
In hindsight for myself Australia and US are nicer for these sorts of things. I would have stayed home and went to local university early.
