Well, this has taken an interesting turn in conversation. I'll follow the lead.

FWIW, the online M-B tests aren't the actual assessment but variations of it. I think though that the results come out pretty close or right on. I took the actual M-B in college and my results have always been consistent when I do the on-line versions. But the kids version was actually called the Murphy-Meisgeier for Children. MrWiggly took it himself, unlike the online one where the adult chooses responses for the child. We were given a link and a password, MrWiggly sat at the computer and answered the questions about his preferences himself, without interference from us. His results on that assessment were actually different from the on-line one that Kriston provided a link to which I had done for him.

As far as the homeschooling issue, let me clarify on the personality type issues. For us, Dr. Ruf pointed out that my personality type and MrWiggly's type are not a good match. That is why she stated that I should NOT be his teacher if we homeschool. This was based on our personal issues as MrWiggly is so needy emotionally (seeks praise often, easily has his feelings hurt, gets embarrassed and so on) and I tend to mother/baby him due to my personality style. She pointed out that I need to be more firm as I affirm/validate him so as to help him grow in terms of emotional health and maturity. Basically it came down to the fact that MrWiggly's style seems to be seeking enmeshment and I tend to feed into it. This, she felt, is what has fueled some of the emotional battles we've had around separation issues, his tantrums and his demanding or neediness. This is a somewhat simplistic explanation of a complex issue, but you get the point.

Dr. Ruf did recommend that I pick up a book called "Motherstyles: Using Personality Types to Discover Your Parenting Strengths"
http://www.amazon.com/MotherStyles-...mp;s=books&qid=1219158268&sr=1-1

I am planning on getting that one but am currently working on "Children: The Challenge" which she recommended first to help with the parenting issues.
http://www.amazon.com/Children-Chal...mp;s=books&qid=1219158390&sr=1-1

BTW, another great thing about Dr. Ruf is that she provides a plethora of resources!!! Someone told me that I wouldn't likely need her to actually advocate for our son as she would empower us to do that ourselves. I didn't really believe that before but I understand now what that person meant! I do indeed feel more well armed for the advocacy!