Thanks all for your replied and it feels not alone that many has similar experiences that truly gifted children are excluded from district gifted program.

We have not given up yet, as the school years draws to the end, the gate office is filling a few remaining spots left by admitted kids who decide not to attend for various reasons.

What would you think if I provide a letter of recommendation for my son's teacher and ask her to send to the gate office. Would that really be considered pushy?