bluemagic- that's what I did in this instance. I also feel mistakes are important, so I usually do let her do it herself. But this project was too complicated for her to do by herself. The last time this happened I took the project away, and when I gave it back to her, she was careful not to get into that melt down place again so it worked.

I do think I need to find a way to turn down the sassiness talkback though.