But at that moment, I realized that my child had tried to tell me there was a problem and I should have listened before she acted out.
Change the she to a he above and you have duplicated my son in his preschool/daycare program. Shortly after turning 4 he became such a behavior problem at school. He had become agressive towards his teachers and his peers. I should have listened to him when he told me that he hated going to daycare. Only a few short weeks after moving him to a new school the behaviors disappeared. I wish I hadn't waited so long to make the change. I endured 9 months of daily bad reports from my son's teachers. I will never do that again.
