fjzh, your description of your daughter sounds almost exactly how I would describe my son. He is also as yet to be identified, but I am really starting to believe that he is at least MG. We have the same extreme problem with perfectionism and I have asked for ideas to counter it as well. We recently read the book Your Fantastic Elastic Brain by JoAnn Deak and DS LOVED it. He might even be making a tiny bit of progress whenever we remind him that his brain is stretching itself... smile