Thanks for responding, I appreciate you taking the time. It was helpful to know it's not just me. I think the school feels I'm a overbearing parent full of misplaced mommy pride but I don't care. I'm going to do what's right for my kid with or without them. It made me so mad when they told me there's nothing they could do. If my child had a learning disability theres no way they could get away with the do nothing approach. Thanks again.