Originally Posted by polarbear
Originally Posted by blackcat
He might like genealogy but our other kid is not genetically related and we have no access to information for her, so it might cause bad feelings on her part. We don't even have ethnicity info, we just know she is caucasian. So I'm trying to avoid going there.

FWIW, we have this same situation in our family... and much to my surprise my dd who has no information and most likely never will.. became extremely interested in our family's genealogy. We had purposely avoided it, but she was assigned one of those school projects in early elementary that made me want to have a nice long passionate chat with the teacher about how there are kids in her classroom that have no idea about family history... but instead my dd leapt into it with excitement and informed me she had no issues with it.... so... it's all so individual.. some people will be bothered by it and not want to think about it, other kids just roll with it.

The one thing that has been really interesting for my dds, and might be interesting to your dd and ds as well... but unfortunately costs $... is family history DNA testing. My other dd isn't really interested at all in my family history (she also has no genetic ties to us and no knowledge of her family history)... but both dds have been fascinated by seeing the results of the testing. To be honest, their results don't make a lot of sense to me. I had my own tested just out of curiosity, and it came up a bit strange too... but it's all made for fascinating conversations!

polarbear

My younger son has a best friend adopted from a South American country. He had to do project after project on geneology, heritage, family. The program he was in celebrated diversity and all cultures but heavy study in Hispanic culture because it was Spanish immersion school. Every year he was really into the projects and his unique family and heritage and he embraces it all...his birth information (what they know) as well as the family heritage of both his dads. And all his friends just grew up knowing he had two dads and 4 different branches on his tree for parents (adoptive and birth).

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