PS. As a fairly private person (with, what is it, a deep inner world?), I rarely discussed with my parents the feelings and questions I had about being adopted while growing up, even though I wanted to. I played along, and didn't want to rock the boat by asking questions; always balancing their feelings against my own (something I later recognized as part of my emotional sensitivity). My point is simply to be aware if it does come up, even casually, an open door now can help later. :-)