Maybe your DD can just shrug and say"I did some tests and there is where I am supposed to be." The less fuss, the less said, the less drama it will be. Hopefully you will find most kids are nonplussed, especially if she just gets on and does her work and they see she is indeed where she should be.
Good luck!
So glad to see this post. I wrote out some of these answers and gave them to DD. I am hoping she can get the nonchalant attitude down pat - she used to get angry about being asked about her age but is getting better.
