We found having a baby sitter once a week or so(she was really good - she was at least MG and great with kids) was very helpful. We would not go out or anything - we would still be at home - but it was nice to have 2 hours or so where we could disengage from DS and catch up on chores and recharge (knowing he would have a good time and be stimulated. I think he had more fun with the sitter than with us ...).