Originally Posted by MichelleC
Agree with all the above great suggestions. Our frame was "Good news! We've figured out why this is so much harder for you than for others, because you need to learn it a different way than others do. So now that we know, we can start learning that other way, and you will become able to do this."

This. Or more casual. You remember that lady you went to see the other day? She has seen kids who have the same problems and knows some tricks that might help.