My children would never, ever do this, but I know another child who behaves like this with animals. This child is not the most kind or compassionate of children in some ways, but I do not think he is mentally ill or has a disorder. That child has never seriously hurt an animal that I know of, but will "explore" with bothering them in this way. This is also a child who is somewhat inclined toward teasing other children, but I would not classify him as an actual bully.
I agree...it's very disturbing to see, but possibly somewhat age appropriate for some children??? I don't know.
The child I know has family pets, so it's not a matter of no exposure.
ETA: And I have seen the exact same behavior with the kid I know looking at an adult to see if he is being watched, and almost checking for a response. Very similar. Could the child be looking for boundaries? Needs to know more about what is appropriate or not? It's something I've wondered. I know the child's parents in my case are very frustrated with all this behavior (child is also generally "too much" with the family animals--doesn't watch their cues and is too much in their space). Yet he will also profess to love and adore animals...
Last edited by ultramarina; 12/17/14 06:13 AM.
