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But no matter how it turns out, don't ever let the school scapegoat your DS and blame this situation on him.

I know a PG teen who didn't get help and has completely burned out. Funking out of school, belligerent and constantly in trouble, totally shut down.
You may wish to share hope with this family by pointing out resources on the Davidson database such as the article Tips For Parents: Taking Control of Your Child's Education, which may help a teen get un-stuck and moving forward in a positive direction.