I took DS to one follow up session with the OT that did the eval. It was about 30 minutes of her giving him different fidget toys to try out, a couple of slides down a short ramp on a board with wheels, 10 minutes of him lying on his stomach on a swinging platform throwing beanbags into a bucket, and discussion about whether I wanted to do listening therapy. I didn't get the sense that he got ANYTHING out of it. Admittedly only one session, but I am not inclined to spend $100/hr and take time off work to have him see someone in whom I felt little confidence.

Yay- I brought up the neuropsych again with DH and told him I really wanted to do it. He said "Go ahead". Then said something to the effect of "I guess you're not going give up on that". Perseverance pays off!