I wanted to say thanks, I convinced DH to hold off two weeks til BTSN. He's still really wanting to communicate more (I'm going to start off with asking if second grade does curriculum chats, which we were supposed to get last year to teach parents about instruction in key areas, but they never got to thanks to the sub). He's starting to get than any approach this early would come across wrong, even if he really just wants to open one on one communication.