You did really well. You found the answers to the questions that were important to you and you didn't let the eduspeak cloud the picture.
It does sound like they really didn't know what they were at the meeting for, didn't see the subject or your son as important, and instead just wanted to inform you what the school system likes to do. Here's our program, I'm sure you'll like it. Everyone else seems to.
Enjoy your homeschooler! First thing to remember is that he is so far ahead that there is really nothing that you can do that will mess him up any more than school would. Relax and when you begin to worry, think about where he'd be at school.
