Um. Check your state regs.
You should have had an IEP meeting within 10-15 school days (depending on the state) of testing being completed. The whole process, from signed consent to evaluate to finish (or to the first rejected IEP meeting, in this case), should take no more than 60 calendar days, or 45 school days.
Oh, wait, just noticed you're in MA, which I do know something specific about. The time line is: 30 school days to evaluate, 15 days to hold the first IEP meeting, 3 days to issue a draft IEP, (or 10 days if a summary is provided,) 10 days to respond to the parent's rejection of the IEP, repeat the last few steps until an agreement is reached or it goes to the DESE.
Find an advocate.
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