They DO sound similar-- we have sensory issues + insurance battle over here, too. Plus the behavior is ramping up as it always does for us as school is winding down.

I have recently discovered the accelerated learner board. Lots of good info.

I'm in the process of finding groups near me. There seems to be a lot of homeschoolers, which is a relief. I'm sure I'll have so many questions.

http://www.my-little-poppies.com