Originally Posted by blackcat
should I call the special ed director for the district and ask him for help

I would. You probably have to make a request in writing-- you can find out from that person what the procedure is.

Originally Posted by blackcat
Does anyone know of a resource I can use to make sure the 504 is written the right way with appropriate accommodations?

Wrightslaw.com. See how it goes, though-- you may want to consider hiring an advocate if you are stalled indefinitely.