On a more upbeat note Mana, our second child, a little over 4 years after the first, was almost effortless to raise in his early years in comparison. Our eldest DS with the over active mind? He's now double majoring in Physics and Psychology, the later more to figure himself out than anything I think (laffin) He's paying for most of his own education through multiple academic scholarships.....hang in there. Silver linings and all you know!