i have been thinking about this so much lately - this forum has kept me sane, given me encouragement, provided unbelievable resources and extended so much support. i really value everyone's thoughtful ideas and i love reading about your amazing kids - so thanks, KathrynH, for giving me a place to put all of that into words!

i really feel that it is really thanks to y'all that i'm on my way to better understanding my kid... and myself. and how's THAT for cheesy?! smile

happy thanksgiving, American friends!


Every Sunday it brooded and lay on the floor. Inconveniently close to the drawing-room door.