Originally Posted by jholland1203
...I am considering pulling her from the school if needed but don't know where to go from there as far as homeschool goes. Such as a school, a curriculum, etc.
Have you looked into the articles on the Davidson database regarding homeschool?
some links -
Davidson database: http://www.davidsongifted.org/db/
Davidson database, search for homeschool showed 157 results! Lots of resources.
You might also search online for gifted homeschoolers forum and HSLDA homeschool laws.
Online public school which you oversee in your home is not homeschooling per se, it is public school.

Originally Posted by jholland1203
what to say to her
Lots of great advice and information here -
http://www.greatpotentialpress.com/a-parents-guide-to-gifted-children

You may wish to talk with her sometime about her observations on being different, precocious, finding other kids less interesting than adults, and anything else she comes up with. May want to plan to have her tested, possibly putting things in the context of looking for other children like her that she may find fun and interesting to be around and who will "get" her. You might explain that first you have to find out what kind of kid she is, so you can look for others who are like her.