Thank you all! It feels like 1000lb weight has been lifted today. You know when you see an adult working with your child who is genuinely enjoying them and "getting" them. I got that today even after school with additional intentional contact from the staff who are likely to be included in the team deliberating on my child. Classroom teacher is another story but I think is just totally clueless about all of it. Acceleration could easily remove him from her room down the line anyhow.