This is so helpful to me. My husband very graciously pointed out yesterday that I need to stop being apologetic about our son's abilities. I'm very anxious about approaching the teacher or administration. Part of that is because I respect what they do so much and the other part is because of the stories I've heard from others.

The bottom line is that my son needs more at school and, as his parent, it's my job to work toward that on his behalf.

Thank you all for sharing your experiences. It helps to hear from people farther down the road.