Your family speaks French, right? The American homeschoolers use a program called "ortho gilliam reading" for teaching reading and writing to dyslexic and a speech-to-text computer program for dysgraphic.
I read a book called "The Well Trained Mind" about a history/liturature style of homeschooling. For very young kids you do their reading and writing for them, except for handwriting class. This way they can learn to think and do their lessons without their reading and writing holding them back. For example, we have made a "book report notebook". My son reads a book. He tells me what it's about. I write down what he says. This way he learns how to think about a book report without holding back. For handwriting he has to copy one sentence word for word.
For history we have a notebook. I read his History assignment to him. He has to tell me about what I just read. Sometimes I have to read it again because he wasn't listening. He tells me what it was about. I write it down in the notebook. His job is to listen, understand, and explain the history lesson. I do all the reading and writing. The idea is to make them read for reading class and write for penmanship class, but for history and science and math you take most of the reading and writing work for them, then they can focus on learning the lesson instead of being distracted by the extra work of reading and writing.
This is probably really bad, but I use an old fashioned "cure" for the provocative days. I give him some of the coffee from my cup and put him out in the yard. My grandma would use Coca Cola but I think coffee is the same effect. The bad part is he asks for coffee other times, but I tell him it will stunt your growth and you can only have a little bit only sometimes.