Pemberley, I think your principal sounds worse than mine... (hope I didn't speak too soon!) And it wasn't me really - it was all of the good advice here and from my advocate AND probably the reputation of the lawyer I retained!

I don't think my principal will get in any trouble at all. The Special Ed Director refused to do anything either until the assist. superintendent made her. That he didn't get away with pushing me around and that he knows in the future he will not push me around or bully me will have to be enough. Since he seems to be such a power/control freak and since I clearly get under his skin... the fact that I was able to stop him and get 'my way' is some punishment, I guess.

Principal was at meeting but the Special Ed Director acted as LEA and he took a back seat. I could tell clearly that they had prepped for the meeting pretty well.