Our boys haven't been tested yet but they both have issues. But from what it looks like so far, the younger one (DS3) we are suspecting to be HG+ or even PG is the one with the major issues. At home he's acting like an almost normal quirky child with some sensory problems, outside and to evaluators (diagnostic and other) he presents as highly functioning autistic and for school therapists / school setting he acts as if fully autistic. Our friends haven't even realized he has a diagnosis because to them he's just more reserved and very smart but they all look at me with a big surprise in their face when I say he should be autistic. So, clearly not "typical". DS4.5 who seems to be HG+ has PDD-NOS but not a set diagnosis. May change to Asperger's more likely upon further testing. He has a lot of sensory issues and overall for me and our daily life is the MORE difficult one yet for the school he's the easy one (basically, he's a total show off who can compensate for his problems really well vs. his younger brother who doesn't even attempt to compensate and is scared of anything outside his comfort zone)
