You've likely considered this, but parents with NT gifted kids who are functioning beautifully aren't so likely to be posting on this board (what is there to post about?)

Only one of my children has been tested, and did not test 145+. She is not NT, IMO. The other one is only 5, and not tested yet, but is more likely to test 99.9, IMO. While he can be quirky, and is not exactly Joe Average emotionally, I do not think he will ever be diagnosed with anything other than giftedness. In other words, I suspect he is a bit more gifted than his sister, but less oddly wired.