squirt,

I feel your pain! My H thinks I education-obsessed, though he expresses appreciation for all I do. He has left it up to me, but that makes it less of a "team" in deciding, discussing, etc. My H is also into the "normal" growing up experience, and talks about how he spent 3rd grade reading novels in the corner of the class. He went to college after 11th grade without a diploma.

As far as articles, I love Miraca Gross's research because she stops me from being wimpy, gets me charged that I need to be more aggressive in educational approach. Maybe try http://www.hoagiesgifted.org/underserved.htm