One other thought, if you ds was below grade level, you would have no (or very little) guilt for the time, effort, and exposure you would be providing for you ds to get him to grade level. All you are doing is letting him continue to learn. There's nothing wrong with that.
Melessa - Thanks so much for this! That's an awesome perspective and I will try to approach it in this manner. If he is happy learning and asking for more he will get it. No more guilt!
MON - As usual, thanks for your insightful comments. You are right it probably is out of my control. I can try and encourage his direction and provide resources that I am comfortable with but I won't be able to stop him from learning. It's just so hard to watch your child start on a path that you know won't be easy so early in life.
