Bonjour!
Your daughter sounds very wonderful, I think she will be a help to her brother as they grow up.
Do you have art therapists over there? I know two art therapists here. Typically they work with PTSD such as veterans or children that have been through trauma. However one of them said that more recently she has started working with children who she described as being "broken by the school system". Creative children or 2E children who don't fit in the box and aren't serviced or appreciated. They have emotional scars and/or poor self esteem that need to be addressed. Therapy through a creative outlet can be helpful to them.
Just a thought.
