Oh no. It's not what I meant... I wanted to say that I was eager to find this very thing that would make me feel as complete as some of you appear to be, and less morose concerning future.
I would say the key is to learn how to accept ambiguity with equanimity. I think everyone struggles with ambiguity when they're at a crossroads because the drive for security and stability is so human. Sadly, I don't have a great roadmap for you, just a suggestion to let your interests be your compass.
(I think I beat that travel metaphor to death, didn't I!)
