We emphasize in our family that God (=love) works through our and other humans' hands; it's up to us to make the world more perfect in the here and now even though we can't get all the way there.

We also do some mindfulness-- look closely at what's around you NOW, rather than planning and worrying excessively about the future, which isn't here yet. We redirect to the "now" when the future stuff gets out of hand.

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