This is off topic from my OP but MON, how do you get from the teachers saying you bought the diagnosis to trusting them to educate your kid? I would be afraid they would be vindictive.

Our babysitter had a 504 plan and in high school her math teacher brought up her accommodations in class. She was really embarrassed and stressed to be singled out that way as she has an anxiety disorder but was afraid to get her parents even more involved.

Plus there is that other thread going right now about some educator disliking the gifted lable.

Ugh...I kind of feel like if every year it is going to be hit or miss with the teachers not liking me, my son or both, maybe we should start thinking about homeschooling.