The answer to the question posed in the thread title is...
perhaps not. HG+ children are rare, statistically, and this means that unless you are fortunate enough to live in a densely populated area, your child is going to spend most of his/her childhood as something of a singularity.
This does NOT mean that it is okay to tell such a child to be something that s/he cannot be in order to make the adults and peers in his/her life more comfortable.
What can you do to make it better, instead of "right"?
