Pemberley, I'm sure you're right on all counts, but I'm hoping to bandaid through this enough to not have to ask for an IEP meeting until I've been able to meet with the Twice Exceptional Coordinator. I'd like to find out where she is landing on some of the issues before I ask her to attend. If she turns out to not be an ally, it might be worse having her there than not. But if she turns out to be an ally, it might make all the difference in the world about what comes out of the IEP.
Oh, some days it is just so exhausting to push pushing uphill, isn't it? Today is one of those where I just wonder if it is really worth it. Tomorrow I'm sure I'll be back in the saddle tilting at windmills, but today I'm bone weary.